Episodes
The Modern Dandy’s Guide to Manliness Podcast. Join Wes, Liam, Josh and guests in a weekly conversation about manliness in the modern era, with perspectives from across backgrounds, generations, and genders. From how to develop a personal style to achieving success in life, love and your chosen career, these frank and often humorous conversations between friends provide an outlook on what it means to be man in today’s world.
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Find all of Season 1 episodes here.
Traveling abroad is one of the most foundational of experiences. As Mark Twain said, "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness", and thus something the Dandies believe should be pursued. But why can it be so transformational, and what are the ways of doing it well?
Join Mudcat, Liam, Josh and Wes as they begin Season 2 of The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness!
(Recorded January 11th, 2019) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 2: Cologne, and other Confusing Infusions.
Men's scents, including cologne, aftershave, and deodorants, can be a pretty daunting challenge. So why should a Dandy care, and what goes into choosing, using, and hopefully not abusing the smelly stuff?
(Recorded January 25th, 2019) Listen on Anchor, Spotify Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 3: Toxic Masculinity Today
The term "toxic masculinity" frequently comes up in relation to everything from the #metoo movement, the rate of college sexual assaults, to school and mass shootings, Silicon Valley corporate bro culture, and the socio-political "war on women". But if that is "toxic masculinity", what's "healthy masculinity", and how do we achieve it? How can that contribute to creating a better society? (Recorded January 25th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 4: ARRIVED: with Bethany Wrede
Wes and Liam speak with Bethany Wrede, the host of the podcast "ARRIVED: Bringing your A-game home", about what led her to focus on interior design and why she's dedicated her podcast to helping single young men make the first moves in creating unique home spaces for themselves. Exclusive offer for listeners of TMDGM podcast – Book a complimentary 60 minute consult and action plan with Bethany.
(Recorded February 8th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 5: Making a Career Pivot
Making a major career change can be equal parts terrifying and exhilarating. Joy joins the Dandies to share her experience of making the transition between two very different industries, and Liam shares a story of his first - and most dramatic - career move.
(Recorded February 8th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 6: Best Dressed Movie Characters (Part 1)
We love the cinema, the characters, the action and of course... the costumes! Join Liam and Wes as they discuss their list of Best Dressed Film Characters in this two part series from The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness.
Part 1 Characters: John Wick, John Wick 2 (Keanu Reeves); James Bond, Casino Royale [2006] (Daniel Craig), Indiana Jones, Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark/Last Crusade (Harrison Ford)
(Recorded February 22nd, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 7: Best Dressed Movie Characters (Part 2)
We love the cinema, the characters, the action and of course... the costumes! Join Liam and Wes as they discuss their list of Best Dressed Film Characters in this two part series from The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness.
Part 2 Characters: Luther, Luther (Edris Elba); Johnny Quid, RocknRolla (Toby Kebbell); Morpheus, The Matrix 2 (Laurence Fishburne)
Notable Characters of Teenage Influence: Conor MacLeod, Highlander (Christopher Lambert); Tyler Durden, Fight Club (Brad Pitt)
(Recorded February 22nd, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
A lot has changed in the past 6 weeks. Due to the coronavirus many people are now forced to work from home or under shelter-in-place instructions. Business and personal travel is cancelled. Gyms, bars, and restaurants are closed. Social distancing directives recommend avoiding gatherings and staying 6 feet or more from other people at all times.
So how can we stay healthy and sane? Ems, Liam’s Dandy Lady, joins us to discuss some of the do’s and don’ts of maintaining your fitness and wellness in these trying times.
(Recorded March 7th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
In the immortal words of who-knows, "shit just got real". The stock market has been tanking, unemployment is rising, oil prices have crumbled, and borders are closing. The Dandies chat about their thoughts in making financial and other important life decisions amongst this uncertainty.
(Recorded March 21st, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 10: How to Win a Freak Gasoline Fight
If you really, really, really want to be good looking* then it's time to up your accessories game. From rings, bracelets and pendants to pens, watches and cufflinks, a touch of bling can elevate your look and refine your personal style. So why do men wear jewelry, and are there rules? (* Yes, this is a tribute to Zoolander. Expect more throughout the episode.)
(Recorded March 21st, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 11: Divorce and Reinvention (Part 1)
A divorce is one of the most life-altering, soul-crushing, confidence-destroying events most men will face. Using it as an opportunity for reflection and re-invention can seem impossible at the time, but every life change is also an opportunity. The Dandies are joined by James to talk about how they each have handled the challenges of divorce and the need to reinvent themselves.
(Recorded April 4th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 12: Divorce and Reinvention (Part 2)
If you really, really, really want to be good looking* then it's time to up your accessories game. From rings, bracelets and pendants to pens, watches and cufflinks, a touch of bling can elevate your look and refine your personal style. So why do men wear jewelry, and are there rules? (* Yes, this is a tribute to Zoolander. Expect more throughout the episode.)
(Recorded April 4th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 13: Getting Your Head in the Game
Matthias, a Modern Dandy listener from Germany, joins Josh, Wes, Mudcat and Liam for a discussion about how hats can set you apart, promote your personal brand, and be practical all at the same time. (Recorded April 18th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
As the coronavirus pandemic rages around the world, the Dandies discuss how they're coping with isolation, cohabitation, and preparation for whatever comes next.
(Recorded April 18th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 15: The Definition of Dandyism, with Natty Adams
With his two wonderful books on Dandyism, Natty Adams has both captured and refined what it means to be a dandy. Wes, Liam and Josh chat with Natty about how he became fascinated with Dandyism, the creation of his books, and what he sees next in his continuing obsession with elegance. (Find Natty’s books, I Am Dandy and We Are Dandy, at good booksellers.)
(Recorded May 2nd, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 16: Do Not Adjust Your Mindset, Reality Is At Fault
With Josh throwing a spanner in the works by Josh oversleeping and missing the session to record a topic he chose, Mudcat, Liam and Wes attempt to record a podcast on appropriately dressing for business and friends on internet events. But then ... well, you'll just have to listen to find out how far they drifted.
(Recorded May 16th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 17: Who’s Your Dandy? LIVE! Wes (on his birthday).
As a celebration of Wes’s birthday, the Dandies record their first live event and delve into Wes’s background, philosophy, and interests which led him to producing this podcast.
(Recorded May 30th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and whereever good podcasts are found.
Episode 19: The Dandies on Religion
They say there's three topics to never bring up in polite conversation: Politics, Religion, and Money. However what to "they" know, anyway? The Dandies discuss what's shaped their views on religion and how they see it fitting with being a modern man.
(Recorded July 11th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 21: The Southerners do Breakfast
Mudcat and Liam warmly, if not begrudgingly, invite Wes to join the Southerners in a beloved conversation about breakfast. What's your starter meal? Sweet? Savory? How about a healthy pour of Bollinger (not a sponsor... yet) and Eggs Imperial?
(Recorded July 18th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and whereever good podcasts are found.
Episode 22: The Importance of Storytelling
Why is story-telling so important? Communication is so critical in all aspects of modern life, but the simple statement of facts in a chronological order would bore even the most analytical clerical worker. Join The Modern Dandies Josh, Liam, and Wes as they explore the elements of authentic and effective story-telling in both personal and professional life.
Show notes: We reference a few resources during the episode, including Starting with Why by Simon Sinek, Igniting Inspiration by John Marshall Roberts, and The Code Book by Simon Singh, as well as the The Oatmeal Core Beliefs Comic. .
(Recorded July 25th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 23: Why Local Government Matters
In the face of so many global and national issues, individual contribution to change can seem overwhelming. So how can a Dandy do something to better the world they live in? Join the Dandies, Liam, Josh, Mudcat and Wes as they discuss the role of Local Government and how it impacts the world around you. .
(Recorded August 15th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and whereever good podcasts are found.
Even Dandies need to have an outlet for their foils and frustrations. So when and where is an appropriate time to lose your cool and go large* with your emotions? Josh, Mudcat and Wes discuss the need to venti and its importance in staying otherwise frappe, while Liam tries to take a more philosophical approach. (* See what I did there?)
(Recorded August 15th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever good podcasts are found.
In our discussions on religion and politics the Dandies raised the importance of establishing your own credo - the principles you deeply believe. Part of that is respecting and being open to discuss the viewpoints of others, even if they don't necessarily match your own. Wes, Mudcat, and Liam are joined by Rebecca Tweed to discuss how this is playing out in politics and society today.
(Recorded August 29th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever good podcasts are found.
Part 2 in our conversation with Rebecca Tweed; Wes, Mudcat, Liam and Rebecca continue to discuss how politics and society today are impacted by the ability (or lack thereof) to listen to each other and hold back preconceived notions and judgement based solely on party lines.
(Recorded August 29th, 2020) Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever good podcasts are found.
Episode 25: Death in the Family
A death in the family, whether of a parent, sibling, grandparent, or close personal friend is one of the most traumatic experiences someone can face. With the recent death of Liam's mother, the Dandies discuss how they deal with the passing of a close family member or friend.
(Recorded September 12th, 2020) Listen soon.
Episode 26: ... what would you like to hear?
We're always looking for ideas on topics to talk about, so if there's something you'd like us to discuss please send us an email.
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